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Hosteling with kids

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In the past couple of years as we’ve been preparing for our family world trip, we’ve been trying out bits and pieces of our planned travel style from traveling with backpacks using public transit to, most recently, staying in hostels. We’ve done this to introduce our children to this style of travel (or remind them of it) and to verify to ourselves that it’s possible to travel like this as a family. This past April we did a mini (four-day) road trip in Ireland staying in hostels. From that experience here are four things to remember when planning to hostel with kids.

1. Hosteling With Kids – Yes You Can!
Sure, hosteling may be something you think of as something for young, single, twenty-somethings, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t or shouldn’t enjoy this experience with children. The first step is to be sure that staying in a hostel is right for you and your children. I know I wouldn’t have attempted this when my kids were younger because they wouldn’t have settled at night-time and hence I wouldn’t have been comfortable or slept a wink. At nine and 14, the shared-room, shared-kitchen environment of a hostel was a novel and fun experience for my boys (I don’t think they realize yet that they’ve got a year of this ahead of them!).

2. Research Family Friendly Hostels
All hostels are not created equal and you need to do your research in advance. Read property reviews – and read in between the lines, if every review talks about the party scene that property may not be a good choice for your family. Many hostels have more room options than the standard single-sex dorm room configuration. Two, three and four-bed rooms are great for families – preferrably with an ensuite bathroom. Look for properties with laundry facilities, reduced lock-out hours and plenty of common space.

3. Hostel Prices Are Right For Families
It’s tough to beat hostel prices even if you’re paying a premium for a “family suite”. Keep in mind that prices are typically per-person, per-night rather than per-room which can mean that the total cost for a family of four may be similar to the room rate at a local three-star hotel. That said, the hostel’s kitchen facilities will help keep your budget in check.

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4. Children And The Hostel Community
My kids do chores at home. We may fight over when and how they do them, but there’s a definite requirement that everyone in the household pitches in for regular tasks such as post-dinner clean-up and laundry. If we were staying in a rented house or apartment (as we have many times) I would expect my boys to help out. When we stayed in hostels it wasn’t a big deal for all of us to help keep the shared community and kitchen spaces clean – and the multi-cultural, multi-ethnic aspect of staying in a hostel added an educational dimension to the whole experience.

I’ve used HostelBookers.com and HostelWorld.com to research hostel properties. The booking engines on both of these website allow you to specify your room preferences which is a handy way to know if options other than dorm rooms are available. If you have a favorite resource for finding or booking hostel accommodations, do let me know by leaving a comment below.

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An Expat In America

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I moved to the U.S. as a green card holder in 1995. I became a naturalized citizen in 2000. However, I still consider myself Irish and I’m sure I’ll never think of myself as American. Coming up to this 4th of July, I’ve been thinking about our time living here especially since we’re in the process of packing up our house in advance of our family world trip. To that end, here’s a random set of observations about the good old U.S. of A. – from the expat perspective.

* It seems that every time I’m on the freeway for longer than thirty minutes I pass someone hauling a mattress. I don’t know that I have ever seen a mattress on a car or truck in Ireland. Ever.

* You should be immensely proud of the National Parks. They’re amazing. The State Park system in the states I’m most familiar with (Washington, Oregon, California) are worth mentioning too.

* You do realize that the number of questions asked when ordering a cooked breakfast in the U.S. is enough to leave any first-time visitor tongue-tied, right?

* Speaking of which, the two hardest things for me to order at a restaurant or cafe are tuna and water – and that’s with my very best American accent. Small words, totally different vowel sounds.

* The first time someone asked me “Paper or plastic?” at a grocery store, I replied “I’ve got cash here”. Boy, did I feel stupid.

* Micro-brewery beer is a fantastic idea. It’s sad that everyone outside the U.S. thinks that Budweiser is a great American beer. They are really missing out.

* Pitchers are another great idea. I’m sure the only reason they’re not common in Ireland is because a pitcher of Guinness would be all wrong. It’s a pity really.

* All American stores seem to start advertising Valentine’s Day the day after they take down the President’s Day banners (and similarly for all subsequent holidays). Am I the only one living in this country who would like a break between these assaults on my wallet just once in a while?

* Americans work way too much. Intellectually I understand that the 300 million great American consumers are the engine of the U.S. economy. Emotionally, I think an extra week vacation time as standard would do wonders for the national psyche.

* I will never understand why it’s OK to get married, vote, enlist in the army and drive a car at 18 (or younger) but you can’t drink a beer until you’re 21.

* Before I moved here I didn’t know who Lewis and Clarke were and I hadn’t heard of the Louisiana Purchase – and that’s just for starters. I won’t hold it against you if you don’t know some of the finer details of Irish history.

I think that’s enough for now.
If you have an oddity about living in the U.S. you’d like to add, please do so in the comments below. If you want to counter with oddities you observed while visiting Ireland or hanging out with Irish friends, feel free to leave that too.

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Twelve Weeks And Counting

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I could feel the adrenaline pumping, the knot building in my stomach. I had to force myself to take a deep breath and focus on my book – I was only riding the bus home from work for heaven’s sakes! But it was hard to stifle the excitement. This past Saturday, June 5th 2010, our countdown for leaving on our family world trip officially started. I didn’t sleep very well last night as I made numerous mental lists of the things we have yet to do. My work day finished, my mind returned to those thoughts and I realized that this tingling feeling all over was exactly why I wanted to do a trip like this. I am terrified, worried, overwhelmed, yet confident and excited.

So what is going through my head as we enter the final stretch of planning this adventure? Here’s a random sampling of what I was thinking about today for your reading pleasure…

* I will not plan more than the first four weeks of our route in detail before we leave. Yes, I know this may cause us not to get the best deal or be able to do everything we might want to do, but my head will explode if I have to cajole my husband and kids to follow along with a detailed plan. Best to take one step at a time and remember to stop and smell the roses often.

* I’m truly terrified that we will not come back but accidents happen at home too so that’s not a good enough reason to call the whole thing off.

* Ditto for getting sick.

* Putting together a schooling plan for a 5th grader and a 9th grader is a daunting task. If my boys weren’t both highly capable I’m not sure this trip would be possible. Today’s bright idea was to reach out to people we know who are teachers and ask for suggestions, references and review of the plans before we start. So far, the response has been positive.

* Renting out our house and praying to come back and find it habitable is a huge risk. It’s good that I’m an optimist and I believe that most of humanity is decent.

* My younger son is very social and has already voiced his concerns about “getting enough time to play with other kids”. I’m making a list of english-speaking schools in all the cities we plan to visit. Hopefully we’ll find some who welcome visitors for a day.

* My older son is a very reluctant traveler but once engaged is a fantastic person to be with and, in fact, can play tour guide after what might seem like a cursory glimpse at the guide book. The challenge is getting over the initial reluctance which is something we’ll deal with on a daily basis. This, folks, is parenting at the Olympic level.

* He, by the way, has grown an inch in the past two months. Clothing him for a year in advance is going to be very tricky. Ditto for shoes for both of my children.

* To bring electronic games or not to bring electronic games, that is the question. These are noble minds and I would gamble that a Nintendo-less year would be more fortunate for all. But dare I take arms (verbal of course) against my children?

* Based on my family’s genetics, I expect to live a long life. In my 90s I may end up in very reduced circumstances because we took this trip. I have no doubt but that the experience will be worth every penny.

* I am a control freak. Planning to spend half of our trip in countries where I have no hope of understanding the alphabet not mind the language will keep me awake regularly between now and January 2011.

Whew. Now I feel better and the to-do lists for packing and other administrivia don’t seem half as frightening. Thanks for listening.

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Photo Friday: Travel Vaccinations

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If you read my post on medical preparations for our family world trip earlier this week you might have been wondering how our kids actually did with the shots. I think this photo sums it up nicely :)

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CAM, being a little older was more stoic – at least for the photo!

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Family World Trip: Medical Preparations

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I wrote the Health And Safety chapter in the Traveling With Kids book. To do that, I used my own experiences of traveling pre-kids and my experiences traveling with my children in Europe and South America. I spent a lot of time reading the excellent information on travel medicine on the Centers For Disease Control website and I pored over many books on travel medicine. When we started thinking about medical preparations for our family world trip, I was pretty sure I knew what we needed. Even with that, I still felt it would be useful for us to meet with a doctor who specializes in travel medicine.
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Western China And The Silk Road

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We’ve always planned to include visiting China on our family world trip. Until last weekend this wasn’t much more than an item on the list of countries we plan to visit. Then, while flipping through maps in the excellent Wide World Books and Maps travel store, my husband threw me a “how about we go here” curveball which almost knocked me flat. His idea? “Let’s follow the Silk Road”. “You want me to take my children into Afghanistan, Pakistan and Iran?” was my shocked reply. Waving a copy of Lonely Planet’s ‘Pakistan and the Karakoram Highway‘ he said “When you read Three Cups Of Tea you said that you’d love to visit that area.” This is the essence of my relationship with my husband: he comes up with crazy ideas and I, being a plodding, practical person, figure out how we can turn the ideas into reality.
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Family World Trip: Medical Poker

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Disclosure: I’m writing this post before meeting with the travel doctors or telling our children that they’ll be getting multiple shots over the next few months in preparation for our family world trip. I expect the doctor to be competent and professional. I expect my children to absolutely lose it when they realize what’s going on – you’ll probably hear their screeches wherever you are.

I’m writing this because firstly our appointment at the UW Travel Clinic is today and secondly because the conversation I had when making this appointment was like a game of poker, a little weird and strange enough that it begs sharing. The receptionist responded to my request for an appointment – my opening gambit if you will – with a laconic sigh. I countered by saying that we’re a family of four and raised a little by saying that we plan to travel for at least ten months. She met the parlay and raised again with a sly “can you list the countries you plan to visit”. I rattled off a list including most of South America, South-East Asia, Southern Africa and the Middle East (just for good measure). The conversation stalled in silence momentarily. My bluff called, she informed me that we’d have to meet with the Director of the clinic – and then added that we were just in time to start our series of Hepatitis A shots. I think she won that hand. We’ll see how things go today when we meet in person.

And naturally, I’ll be sharing full details of all the shots we’ll be getting and why in a subsequent post.

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Family World Trip And Schooling

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We have started detailed planning for our family’s around the world trip. Since we’ll be taking CAM and BigB out of school for this trip, the decisions about how to manage schooling on the road are the first and most important part of our pre-trip planning. I hope the sections below are helpful for anyone considering a similar endeavor.

How Is Your Child Doing At School Now?
The fact the both our children are doing very well in school is one of the reasons why we are even considering taking this trip. They are avid readers, very capable in math and fascinated by the sciences – but neither of them likes to write. BigB can take disruptions in his school schedule in his stride and rarely struggles to get back into the routine of school after traveling. On the other hand, this has always been an issue for CAM.

Home-Schooling
Initially, my husband was willing to take a year out completely and not even attempt to follow any school curriculum during our around the world trip. I was prepared to research what was required for “the basics”, reading, writing and math and to try to keep up a routine of grade-level work with each of the boys. We went back and forth a bit and eventually decided that with my plan, our year could easily degrade into daily or weekly arguments between our children and me over homework. We decided to take a year out and avoid homework battles. With our decision made, we sat down to talk to our children.

Involve Your Children In Your Decision
This is very appropriate for us with a nine-year-old and a 13-year-old and you might think that this is a step you could skip with younger children, but I caution against doing so. Due to family commitments, our children have regularly missed two or three weeks of school during the academic year almost every year since they each started school. Even when CAM was a Kindergartener, involving him in the discussion with his teacher about his assigned work for the trip we took that year was beneficial in that he was then more willing to do the actual work.

A few months ago, we brought up the subject of schooling during our family world trip with the boys. We explained that we’d considered the options and had decided that the easiest path was for them to re-enter school in September 2011 at 5th and 9th grade respectively. Their reaction was truly surprising: they howled, shocked to the core that they’d be with “they little kids” (one grade level below, seriously?). It turned out that maintaining grade level so that they could re-start school with their existing peers was critically important to them. We explained that this would mean that they would have to commit to doing schoolwork on the road and accept that Mom and Dad would have to be ‘like teachers’ some of the time. We’re each not done with absorbing the practical implications of this decision and I’m still nervous about the potential for disagreements over schoolwork souring our trip. That said, at last review, Dad will be ‘Mr.Math And Science’, Mom will be ‘Ms. Yucky, Language Arts’ and reading will be a given for everyone.

Research Grade-Level Standards For Your School System
In order to keep our children at grade level while we’re traveling, we need to know what those standards are in advance. We’re lucky, because in Washington state, the Curriculum, Learning Standards and reviews of teaching materials are all online. We’re currently investigating how to implement this, whether to bundle the chapters of each book into monthly chunks and have someone mail them to us as we need them or whether to use digital copies of all the books. We’ll probably go with the latter where possible. I experimented with this in my recent trip to Australia with the kids. BigB initially balked at reading his school-books on the computer and doing his homework using Notepad, but was suitably digitally adjusted by the time we were on our way home. When we were waiting for our last flight in LAX, the sight of him working away on a netbook earned him many approving glances from the people sitting around us (you only had to listen for 5 minutes to know he was working on homework – the netbook did not remove the need for incessant “Mom, can you help?” questions).

Involve Your Child’s Current School
In December we met with principals of both our children’s schools and discussed our plans with them. Their enthusiastic responses and offers to support us in putting together a year’s worth of work for our boys is encouraging for us personally and it is very helpful in the organization of our trip. Both principals were voluble in their approval of our world trip as a worthwhile, hands-on learning experience for our children. Both of them asked if they could come along too :)

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Monday Dreaming Of Extended Travel

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It’s been a while since I’ve mentioned anything about the RTW trip which was one of my reasons for starting this blog – but that doesn’t mean that I haven’t been thinking about this trip. In fact, just the opposite.

There’s some good news: We have an itinerary. London to Buenos Aires overland (and circumnavigating South America) to Santiago to Bangkok overland to Vientiane to Shanghai to Beijing (and as much of China as we can squeeze in) to Johannesbug overland via Namibia to Mazabuka Zambia and back to London.

We have moved our start date from June 2010 to September 2010 to suit my husband’s work schedule. This is a good thing because it means that our trip plans are now all above board and have been discussed with employers. I’ve been blogging away since my first post on this topic a year ago and through this have built a network of friends and contacts in many of the places which we wish to visit. I’m excited already to meet these folks in person and very happy that we’ll be able to get input from locals on fun things to see and do.

But, I have to come clean and say that we’ve been affected by the recession and the downturn in the economy. One year on, the impact of such shocking events are still an every-day reality for us and will be for some time to come. We’re approaching this as a known risk to our project but we’re continuing with our planning nonetheless. It has caused some changes in that now I’m planning in 12-week chunks. If we decide that an extended trip is not financially prudent for our family at this time, hopefully we’ll be able to leverage school vacations to for shorter visits to individual regions instead.

I used the One World Itinerary Planner to build the map above – simply because we have airmiles with a OneWorld airline which I hope to be able to use for our flights. Airtreks also has a neat RTW itinerary planner, but the most useful tool so far has been the City Guides on the BBC World Weather website. With charts, tables and graphs showing weather details by month for a long, long list of cities worldwide it’s a mine of information for any traveler.

If you have any ideas for any of the places I mention above or anything relating to planning an extended trip – particularly as a family – do leave a comment below.

This post is part of the Mondays Are For Dreaming series hosted by MotherOfAllTrips. Wander on over and check out some more family travel stories – or dreams.

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santiago

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We have a starting point for our RTW trip: Santiago, Chile. We had discussed starting out by renting an RV and exploring the Western U.S. We considered Australia, Thailand and even Ireland. Essentially, we needed to pick a starting point and decide to stick with it so that I could start investigating airfares and accommodation choices and create a budget for the trip.

So Chile it is. The land of O’Higgins, Allende, and Neruda. The country which came to the aid of Shackleton when the Endurance was lost and the crew wereperilously clinging to their lives on the inhospitable shores of Elephant Island.

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The review of Santiago by Craig from TheWideWideWorld was my tipping point. I was looking for a starting point which was somewhere new – where we’d never been before, noticeably different to home but not so different that it would make CAM feel completely out of his depth. The reality of starting our trip will be huge for him since he hates change and is a reluctant traveler. Craig’s description of Santiago seemed to fit the bill perfectly.

I’m glad to see that there are listings for rental properties in Santiago on VRBO and HomeAway (for ~$400/week). If you have recommendations for a property management company, please, send them my way. Ditto for language schools and ski resorts or operators. I’ve got the Lonely Planet Chile and Easter Island guidebook which will be my bedtime reading for the next couple of weeks. If you have visited Chile, please leave a comment with your favorite attractions or activities so I can keep these in mind as I do my research.

This post is part of the Monday Dreaming series hosted by MotherOfAllTrips.

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