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election 2008

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This is the third U.S. presidential election in which I’ve been able to vote. Becoming a naturalized citizen of a new country is a strange experience that makes you question your own ethnic identity. From the outset, the WanderDad was eager to become a U.S. citizen, but I was not. I couldn’t imagine not being Irish. Verifying that I could have dual citizenship (of the U.S. and Ireland) made the decision easier.

In 2000, after five years of living here, we submitted the paperwork, had our immigration interviews and got our U.S. passports. The entire process was quick and painless – although, as a pacifist, I did stumble a little at the commitment to “bear arms on behalf of the United States when required by the law”. My examiner assured me that he also hoped that the U.S. never got to the point where moms with young kids were being drafted, so I’d probably be OK.

Since we knew we’d be in Ireland for November and December that year, we registered to vote by mail. We completed our ballots, mailed them off and left the country. But that was not the end of the election for us – not by any measure! For the next eight weeks through the nail-biting tension of initial results on election night to the ‘hanging chad’ fiasco to the Bush V. Gore drama, we became personally responsible for the vagaries of the political system in our newly-adopted country to everyone and anyone we met in Ireland. It was unbelievable.

This election has been an educational experience for me since the beginning from learning more about how the primary process works through to hearing about my friends and neighbors becoming actively involved as campaign volunteers (I must remember that for next time).

It seems like there have been tough choices to make at every stage. If you’re still undecided, take the time to read each candidate’s policies. Both Barack Obama and John McCain provide plenty of the information on their respective websites. Make an educated choice. But above all, VOTE!

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This post is part of the virtual Girl’s Night Out Election 2008 discussion which will take place on Twitter on Tuesday 11/4/2008 between 6pm and 9pm PST.

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halloween blogapalooza

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Tara, Ireland

I grew up in a rural Irish town next to Tara, the mythical capital of Ireland. Today, Tara doesn’t look like much – all that’s left are the impressions much older structures left on the landscape. All the same, it doesn’t take much for me to imagine what Tara would have been like at just this time of the year many centuries ago, busy with preparations for the Celtic New Year fest of Samhain (sow-an). On ‘Oiche Shamhna’ (ee-ha how-na), the eve of the feast of Samhain, the Celts believed that the spirits of the dead roamed the earth. We know this celebration as Halloween.

On the first Halloween I spent in the U.S., I remember being quite stunned by how seriously people took the holiday: wearing Halloween-themed clothing, diligently carving pumpkins with elaborate designs and festooning their houses with all manner of gothic decor. Such a change from the Halloween traditions with which I had grown up. I’m intrigued by how some of the original traditions have survived over here and some have been dropped altogether.

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Photo credit: rayolite

The most important part of Halloween when I was a child was building the bonfire. Traditionally, bonfires were built to ward off evil spirits. Not that this mattered in my neighborhood. Impromptu groups of kids who wouldn’t usually even speak to each other coalesced to build the biggest possible pile of combustible materials to burn on Halloween night. Rivalries between neighborhoods were challenged and reinforced in daily ‘bonfire collections’. Playground bragging rights were awarded to the group with the biggest bonfire and the bonfire which burned the longest. As a Mom I’m relieved that this particular tradition doesn’t enflame passions in the U.S.

Traditionally, turnips were used as Jack O Lanterns. If you’re not familiar with turnips, they’re dense root vegetables popular in the British Isles. And by dense, I mean knife-dulling, wiry and fibrous. No way you can slice through this puppy and scoop out the insides. They are possibly, maybe, suitable as replacement heads for scarecrows (a la Worzel Gummidge). Pumpkins make much, much better Jack O Lanterns. Trust me on this one.

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I do miss Irish Halloween food traditions: Barnbrack and Colcannon, nuts and apples. I can understand why Colcannon isn’t popular since let’s face it, cooked cabbage is a truly stinky vegetable. But I think there’s room for Barnbrack. It’s a neat tradition: fortune-telling gifts hidden within the bread. Find a coin and you’ll be rich; find a rag and you’ll be poor; find a thimble and you’ll never marry; find a ring and you’ll fall in love within the year. Truly old-fashioned, I know, but a great source of excitement around my Mom’s table every year. Maybe I’ll take my un-domesticated, culinary-challenged self to the local grocery store and introduce this particular tradition to my kids this year.

This post is part of Angela’s Blogapalooza. Thanks for hosting this Angela and Happy Halloween everyone!

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that’s news to me

Sometimes I come across articles on other people’s blogs or websites which are too good not to share.

The ONLY way to travel:
Apparently, if you travel with a Superhero, everything goes swimmingly. You have to smile as you read Amy Graff’s story of her recent airport experience with a child in a super-hero cape. I’m sure there’s moms out there who will keep this in mind the next time they travel. Thanks to the folks at TravelsWithChild for sharing this one.

Just in 2008, my super-independent eight-year-old managed to get lost in:

  • Trafalgar Square
  • Heathrow, Terminal 4
  • A large Barnes & Noble in Seattle

In case you think I’m an irresponsible parent, you should know that in all cases, he was found either sitting on the floor reading a book (but totally out of sight) or just a few feet away, in plain view, but in a very, very large crowd.

My biggest panic when we couldn’t see him in Trafalgar Square? That if he realized he was lost, I knew he didn’t know the number of the cell phone I was holding in my hand – which would be the easiest way for a concerned adult to help him find us. Thankfully, there’s a new product available, the Spot-Me-ID, which I plan to stock up on for future trips. And it is ‘On The Move Approved’ by the TravelingMamas. What more can I say?

Since we travel through Heathrow regularly, I’m equally excited to read about AC on the London Underground and intrigued by the potential demise of the Heathrow. There’s no doubt that the controversy over a third runway at Heathrow has been dragging on and even if approved, will come with a hefty price tag. I’ll be watching this story unfold.

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CAM-RER-2002

travel, kids and cultural awareness

I read an interesting article the other day. It made me stop and think. So how do you teach your kids to be culturally aware? And is this even possible? I wrote a long response to the author’s question on this on the twittermoms forum, but I care enough about this topic that I thought it worthwhile to share my ideas and opinions here too.

This question is posed at the start of this article: “How do you bring a culture into your own living room and bring back the actual experiences that forever make you see life differently?” I say, you have to start with what’s in your own living room. Abstract concepts like race and culture are difficult for children to understand, but they love to hear stories about you and to know more about their own family. Start with sharing that story. Use the foods you eat and your family’s traditions and celebrations to make the story come alive. This is step one in your child’s cultural awareness education.

Children of the World

You’ll need props to explain what you mean when you say that: “Your great-great-grandmother came from Italy.” I like to have a globe on hand. You can help your preschooler trace the route taken with his finger. Step two: The world is a big place and everywhere is not the same. Large floor puzzles Melissa and Doug World Map , Children Around the World) are a great way to integrate learning about the world into play – which is really how little kids learn.

If the World Were a Village

For me, step three was teaching my children about differences whether they are physical, social and economic. I have found the unicef store a great resource for books and puzzles for this. David J. Smith’s book If the World Were a Village excellently describes the uneven distribution of food, resources and education using simple math in a way that an elementary school child can easily understand.

And finally, step four is getting out there an experiencing the world. It may be choosing to take the bus around your town or traveling to another country (any other country) and savoring the differences you find there. Most importantly, when you travel, don’t stay in expensive hotels and rent a car. Live like a local or stay in a family-run guesthouse and take public transit. Yes, it adds an extra level of difficulty to traveling with children, but it’s worth it.

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CAM, with his aunt, on the RER in Paris in 2002. Six, and patiently handling public transit like a pro.

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celebrity pilot comes to the rescue and other travel tales

Who knew?
Apparently Bruce Dickenson, lead singer with Iron Maiden, also works as a commercial pilot. He just had his own vacation cut short to help rescue passengers stranded in Egypt and Greece by the recent collapse of XL Leisure Group. Thanks to Lisa Mullins, the host of PRI’s “The World” for adding this tidbit of celebrity gossip to her piece on struggling airlines today :)

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Photo: GFDL / MilborneOne

Making condo rentals easier
The announcement of the partnership between Orbitz and the Zonder Group late last month is an exciting development in family travel. I’ve been using condos as my preferred accommodation choice since our first trip with two kids – when sharing bedtime routines and nighttime feedings in one hotel room meant that no-one got a good night’s sleep.

Condos are more cost-efficient and definitely more spacious than a standard hotel room. But, they can be difficult to find and the quality varies wildly. If the “Zonder Guarantee” and Customer Bill of Rights can become industry standard for this market, this will be a win for the consumer. Here’s hoping Zonder starts expanding property locations outside of the Americas.

An Imperfect Spy ?
When I visited Cyprus last year, I was truly excited to spent a couple of nights in Nicosia. Even though I’m a fairly frugal traveler, I booked us into the Nicosia Hilton. Where did this irrational extravagance come from ? I am a huge fan of John le Carré. Huge. As in I’ve read all of his books and I’m eagerly awaiting the release of his next one. In my guidebook (Lonely Planet Cyprus), the Nicosia Hilton was described as “a gathering-ground for eastern and western spies during the Cold War.” I couldn’t resist. I know I was in a Le Carré-inspired reverie when I checked into that hotel.

It was fascinating for me to learn today that Le Carré once considered defecting because he was “curious to find out what life was like behind the Iron Curtain.” I, for one, am glad that he didn’t and instead became a writer.

Lonely Planet Cyprus

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The beary big firefighter

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This is a bit of a gratuitous post just to take part in Debbie’s Photo Friday on DeliciousBaby. Any excuse to show off even more photos of my kids :)

The photo was taken at Melbourne Fire Station in Melbourne, Australia. When we visited in 2000, with some friends and their two sons, I was pregnant with BigB and CAM was 3 1/2. I picked up a local guidebook on kid-friendly activities in Melbourne and we discovered that the fire station was open for visitors. It was a perfect thing to do with two four-year-old boys.

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What happened to Kayak and Farecast ??

I wrote about how I was a huge fan of Farecast last march. I still am, now I use Kayak just as much, but overall I just love the idea of having a meta-search engine that allows me to easily find the cheapest airfare possible for wherever it is I want to go.

BUT…

I spent two very frustrating hours last night using both Farecast and Kayak. And then Expedia and Orbitz and a variety of airline websites and now I’m utterly confused. Either someone (i.e. an airline) has some very dirty data, or I’ve been swindled into trusting these meta-search engines to provide a service which they’re actually not capable of providing.

I was trying to book a flight from London Heathrow to Seattle in December. I’ve been watching the fares pretty regularly (since June) on Kayak and all through the summer the lowest fare was about $550 return with KLM/NWA. Happy days. That’s a rock-bottom fare on that route. So, credit card in hand, last night I went to book the actual ticket. And then my world came tumbling down. I ended up paying $820 for the flight. Still not as bad as the $1200 my friend paid for her flight on the same route this past June, but not the lowest-fare-ever I’ve had my eye on.

What happened ?
I searched on Kayak, found my fare, and clicked on the select button – which, since the fare was offered by Orbitz, brought me to the Orbitz website. Three, no, four attempts to book this fare. Each accompanied with pithy, yet meaningless error message. So I tried the same search on Farecast, Expedia and then the KLM and Northwest Airlines websites. The user experience was a little more pleasant than Orbitz, but nary a sign of my $550 fare.

I booked my flight at the best price I could find and sulked a little. But I couldn’t let it go. For good measure I just searched both Kayak and Farecast for the same flights just now and the same $550 fare with KLM comes up top of the results on both websites. Obviously that fare existed at some point in time – otherwise it couldn’t exist in the search listings. But equally obviously it’s been sold out. Surely the usefulness of these meta-search engines is seriously compromised if ‘stale’ data, such as fares which are no longer available, is not removed from the pool of available of fares promptly ?

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Trevi Fountain

a theme park in Rome ???

I came across Disneyland in Rome (crazy idea) today on MSNBC. At first I thought it was a joke: I mean, seriously, who would think that Rome needs a theme park ?? There’s so much to see and do in the city already. But, it seems like this is something which is actually being considered.
Rome, with over 6 million tourist arrivals annually, places 8th in Euromonitor’s Top 150 City Destinations 2007 rankings. The cities ahead of Rome in the tourist stakes include London (top spot, 15 million tourists), Paris, Bangkok and Dubai. All the same, will a theme park make that much of a difference ?
I’m a target customer for this planned ‘family-friendly attraction’ which aims to ‘show tourists what life was like in the Rome of 2,000 years ago’. I just spent some time (not enough) in Rome this past June. With husband and kids in tow (CAM and BigB, 12 and 8). We were hard-core tourists for four straight days. Your eyes would spin if I listed all the (existing) attractions we visited. Those were tiring days. We had a fabulous time. Now, if you ask them, my children consistently rank Rome as their favorite place in Italy. Would I have squeezed in a Roma-Disney if it were there? No. Not now. Not ever.
Still thinking about Rome and theme parks, this evening, I asked my kids what was their favorite thing about Rome. BigB said (and I am quoting here): “The Trevi Fountain. I just think that all the different places where the water comes out symbolizes many becoming one like everything coming together”. Wow. I’m impressed. CAM is a yard sale junkie. He chose the Porta Portese market as his top pick to visit before we got to Rome and it was top of his list today. (Although I can tell you he was utterly intrigued by the Colosseum – especially the lewd 2,000-year-old graffiti).
My vote for the Lazio area council: don’t bother with the theme park, you’ve got enough going for you already. Spend the money on keeping your city clean. Expand the metro. Police the buses to keep the pickpockets under control. Rome is a unique place, don’t spoil it.
Trevi Fountain

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Travel, Kids and Blogging

I’ve just come home from a 4-week trip to Italy with husband and kids in tow. Before I left, I had great plans to blog regularly during the trip, telling fabulous tales of our adventures. But it was not to be. Total number of blog entries written while traveling: 0. Oh dear.

We had an awesome trip. A wedding, a family get-together, Venice, Florence, Tuscan hills, Rome. We visited art galleries, museums and roman ruins – with children! I feel like I deserve a prize. But I just couldn’t fit in blogging. The rates for using a computer in Internet Cafes were surprisingly steep (EU 3-5 per half hour). Wi-Fi was practically non-existant – and certainly not free. And I found myself struggling to justify taking the time to blog when the intent of the vacation was to spend good quality time with my family.

Not to mention that traveling and sightseeing with children is hard work. Even with an almost unlimited supply of gelato, with temperatures over 90F, even the adults start wilting and all the children want to do is sit in the shade or stay in the pool. It takes a serious effort to keep tempers steady while at the same time exciting an 8-yr-old in the Leaning Tower of Pisa (“OK, it’s cool, can we go back to the pool now ?”).

Obviously there are many travelers out there who find the time to blog while on the road. Maybe if that’s you and you’re a traveling parent, you can share with me how you did/do it ?

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Ways to get kids excited about exploring the whole wide world…

As a family, we’ve recently been watching some of the episodes on David Attenborough’s Planet Earth DVD. In all honestly, the reason we bought this DVD was to find a family movie which wasn’t Disney, Harry Potter or Cartoon Network. What we’ve discovered is worth writing about in this blog since it was such a surprise and may have ignited the travel bug in the minds of our video-game-playing, tv-watching kids!

Even if you don’t normally enjoy nature documentaries, I suggest you give Planet Earth a try. It is simply astounding. I know I’m biased, I grew up watching the BBC in the 70s and 80s. At that time David Attenborough was making ground-breaking nature documentary programs like Life on Earth and The Living Planet. But Planet Earth is just spectacular. There are 11 episodes, each about 1hr long, each focusing on a specific geographical region (e.g. Jungles) or habitat (e.g. Shallow Seas). The standard of cinematography is exceptional but even with that, the creators frequently use super-slow-motion and motion-controlled time-lapse techniques which (we found) really catch the interest of the kids in the room – which creates helpful talking points about the episode in question. I particularly enjoyed the music and of course, the narration by Attenborough is informative and delivered in a familiar, authoritive-but-friendly style.

So, here’s the surprise. After we got over the initial “no, I don’t want to watch a nature movie” reaction, our kids actually asked to watch the next episode! Hey, who knows, maybe we’re benefiting from the success of March of the Penguins – although Happy Feet is more likely. Anyway, we chose Shallow Seas. For anyone who enjoys to scuba-dive, this is a stunning show. You get to see reefs in Western Australia; learn why you might be better off to skip the Great Barrier Reef and head to Indonesia instead; learn about the ocean food chain from algae to humpback whales and see why you might want to check out the coastline of South Africa for sheer abundance, variety of life and activity in the waters. By the end of this episode, our kids – one of whom is absolutely not a travel-junkie – were comfortably talking about visting kelp forests in California and the coral reefs in Australia and Indonesia. Hey, it’s unlikely this enthusiasm will last very long, but in the meantime, I’m going to enjoy the feeling that, much as they grumble and complain every time we have to pack our bags, with the right impetus, they’re wanderers-in-the-making!

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